浪人生が大学生活に馴染むためには?友達はできる?注意することは?

現役時に大学受験を失敗し、1年間の浪人経験を持つ筆者です

浪人生って大学生活に馴染めるのか不安ですよね・・・

この記事を見に来てくれた、浪人中の方や浪人して大学に入学する新入生に向けて
浪人経験を持つ僕が浪人生が大学生活に馴染むためにどうすればよいのか、疑問に思っていることを解消していきたいと思います

友達ってできるの?

大丈夫、できます!
年下と仲良くできるのか?と最初は思いますよね
だって高校時代の部活の後輩とタメ口で話すようになるのと同じことですからね
ですが安心してください
最初は気になるかもしれませんが、時間が経つにつれて全く気にならなくなります

そして周りは現役生ばかりではないこともポイントです
浪人生って案外多いんですよね。さすがに現役生の方が多いですが、仲良くなれる浪人生はいるはずです

浪人したことは隠さず公開した方が良い

実際浪人したことは本気で隠していればバレないと思います

しかし、友達ができれば誕生日は聞かれるだろうし、SNS経由でバレるかもしれません
仲良くなれば学生証(生年月日書いてる)を見せ合ったりします

もし友達に浪人したことを黙っていて実は浪人していたことが後になってわかれば少し気まずくなってしまうかもしれませんので積極的に言うようにしましょう

浪人したことは恥ずかしいことではないので、胸張って伝えましょうね
むしろ浪人したことをネタにするくらいでいいですよ!

先輩との関係は?

サークルや部活に入ると、同い年、もしくは年下の先輩ができます
最初は敬語を使うのって変に感じるかもしれませんが、先輩は先輩ですのできちんと敬語を使いましょう
これも友達同様、慣れれば全く気にならなくなりますよ!

最初に意地張ってタメ口を使っていってしまうと、嫌われてしまう可能性がかなり高いので気を付けましょうね
自分は後輩なんだときちんと割り切りましょう!

たまにタメ口でいいよ!と言ってくれる先輩もいますが、みんながみんなそうではないので気を付けてください

注意することは?

浪人生ですと早めに成人を迎えるので、調子に乗らないことです
成人になると色々と制限なくできることの幅が広がります
そんな時に調子に乗ってしまうと失敗に繋がりますので注意してください

もう一つ、やはり周りは年下ですので、自分は年上だ!と横柄な態度を取らないようにしましょう。嫌われてしまったり浮いてしまうかもしれません

いかかがでしょうか
実際、浪人しても普通に大学生活は馴染めます
全然気にすることなく、大学で仲の良い一生の友達を作って大学生活を謳歌しましょう!

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